Wednesday, 28 July 2010

TRY ASKING SOMEONE OUT ON A DATE

Dating is one of the most common habits of the modern youth.
The youth are interested in meeting new people and developing relationships with people who they find they are compatible with. However it is very important to know the mannerisms of asking someone out for a date. The word to watch out here is politeness.
One has to be really very polite when he / she asks somebody out for a date. They should convey to the other person that they are genuinely interested in them. They should express the fact that they want to spend some quiet quality time together and hence need to go out. There are equal reasons that a person might not be interested for a date and hence might reject. Hence one must know to handle rejections professionally and not to take the hurt into heart.
A guy has to rehearse many times before he asks for a girl out for a date. He also has to choose a special occasion. Rehearsals help the guy to go through the occasion casually rather than being too tense and act awkward before girl. Girls prefer confident guys and hence to acquire loads of confidence, rehearsals are necessary. The other important thing is to wear a smile always irrespective of the situation. There are only three answers when a guy asks a girl out for a date – accepting, rejecting or planning for a later date.
A smile could alter answers for a guy. Once he is rejected and he still sports a smile and confident look the girl might tend to change her mind. Gloomy faces do not attract women. Hence it is always better to be smiling. Even if the girl is busy on that particular day, the guy could always politely re schedule his date and again ask the girl out. Politeness combined with a pleasant, confident and positive attitude works wonders in a date.
Hence the key things to note while asking a person out on a date are politeness, timing, pleasant attitude and more importantly confidence. A combination of all these would definitely result in the person accepting the date.

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