Dating is a common practice among youth of foreign countries. However sometimes, they do not know to differentiate between good dates and bad dates. Hence they fall into a trap of falling into a bad relationship and not knowing how to come out of it. To avoid all these unpleasant circumstances, it is better to understand what a bad date is all about and avoid it altogether.
Though many of us register ourselves on many online dating services and talk with lot of unknown people, very few of us fail to catch the signs when a date begins to go wrong. If that early signal is not recognized, then it becomes very difficult to recognize it at a later stage. The following points might help to know when a date actually is not going on the right path. This would help avoiding this initially and not repenting later.
1. Too much of personal information – When a date starts asking too many personal information like marital status, salary, financial comfort etc, physical description, etc, it is better to be careful and try to avoid this at the initial stage itself. If too much of personal information is divulged, then it might turn out to be very dangerous later
2. Rushing into things – When a date starts rushing into things , like wanting to meet immediately, wanting to have physical contact immediately etc, one has to be very careful. This is a sign that he / she wants to use the others person and then be done with her / him
3. Using obscene language – If one continuously keeps using objectionable language and does not seem to understand the sentiments of the other person, then it is clearly a sign as to what the other person wants out of that relationship. Such relationships should not be encouraged and should be avoided altogether.
These steps helping in judging a bad relationship from a good one and hence helps to put us in the right path of dating. Dating is a fun activity and it is better to live up to its fun content than encourage bad dates and make life messy for us.
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